I'm Valentine Blue (yes, like my hair!): certified sex coach, solo lifestyle guide and founder of OddBird. Think of me as the winged companion you didn't know you needed on this wild, worthy, and deeply personal path of self-intimacy.

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My work is inspired by nearly a decade of expertise in sexual health and pleasure advocacy, working as a licensed social worker with people living on society´s margins. From shelters in France to brothels in Amsterdam, I stood alongside sex workers and drug consumers, fighting for their right to be seen, empowered, and accepted. Those years taught me that sexuality is never just about sex... it´s also about freedom, power and belonging.

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The year 2023 brought me to question most of my life choices and take a different path than the one I was meant to walk on. You know that kind of identity crisis that turn your whole life upside down? Yup, like most people after COVID, I went through that too.

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I left my relationship, my city, my home and my comfortable career behind to backpack the world solo. Eight months on the road reshaped me completely: and led me to train as a certified sex coach & sexologist with the Sexual Health Alliance (certified in 2025).

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Today I proudly guide curious, open-minded solos who feel the pull to explore sex and relationships in ways that go beyond what they’ve been told. Together we turn self-intimacy into a compass for freedom, pleasure, and unapologetic, absolutely delicious living.

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OddBird was born from my own need to create spaces that feel safe, expansive, and unapologetically bold, places where individuals can explore, discover, empower themselves, and yes, fuck around and find out. It’s all about the self: not needing a partner to start living, feel whole or complete. Think of it as a playground where every part of you is welcome: the curious, the kinky, the tender, the deep... even the uncertain.

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Whether you're solo by choice or circumstance, figuring out your sexuality after years of following a script, or craving deeper connections in a disconnected world...

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​Now is the time to say FUCK YES to yourself.

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If you wait to be ready, you will wait forever.

Join me for the adventure of a lifetime.
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Welcome to the flock, odd bird. You belong here.